A person I know (who shall go unnamed) has the most delightful and handy of devices: a cellphone jammer. This pocket-sized contraption renders your cellphone useless if you are within 20 feet or so. It’s also apparently illegal because it’s a mini radio transmitter of sorts, which is the domain of the FTC.
Imagine you are at a restaurant or movie or grocery shopping (the list is endless these days, as people have no bounds or respect for one another when it comes to cell phones). The person next you is yacking away on a “very important” cell phone call. One flip of a switch and his cell phone just became an expensive (and quiet) calculator. A panicked look at the signal indicator: “no signal.” Checking settings… turning the device off and on… Silence.
Observing the human behavior in these scenarios reveals a disturbing picture of our acquired addiction to devices. People would seemingly prefer texting, tweeting, f-booking, and Candy Crushing to talking, even in the company of another flesh and blood human. But there is hope.
I’ve witnessed this jammer work miracles in redirecting people’s attention from screen to face, fostering actual conversation when they stopped fighting the no-service horror. I’ve seen the entire mood at a restaurant table change as people were forced to put away their useless devices and engage with one another. This is the stuff of sociology studies.
I’m not advocating that you acquire one of these illegal humanity restoring devices. I am, however, advocating that you don’t be “that person” engaged with his or her device when there is a perfectly good human at hand. The device and everything on the internet will be there always, but the moment and the person will not.